Oftentimes, we do think that we care for someone just because we call them regularly to check in with them, we send wishes to them during the festive seasons. And sometimes we even think that we are treating them as our VIP when we are remembering and celebrating their birthdays and also the anniversary that we shared with them, those things that we think that are big and important.
To be honest, we are not actually caring for them, if we only do those as mentioned above but forgetting those little things in their lives. Like do you offer to help with the housechores? Or buying the groceries? Do you give them a warming smile to light up their day? Do you really listen to them when they are telling you about the day they went through? Do you hold their hands while taking a stroll? Or do you remember how much sugar to put in their coffee?
To truly care for someone is to pay attention to everything, both big and small things of his/her life, not ONLY to the thing like buying a big present; is to be with him/her whenever he/she needs you to be there, not ONLY on special occasions or events.
There is a saying sounds, "it's the little things that count".
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that we can just treat the special occasions as normal days, creating happy moments during special occasions like birthday, anniversary and festive seasons are the must-dos. The point here is not to forget the little things in everyday life.
If you're someone who cares for the little things of someone you care, you're a caring person. If you do neglect the little things of someone you care, that doesn't mean you're not a caring person, but rather having a different way of expressing your care. Anyway, why not start paying attention to the little things of someone you care start from today? It would strengthen your relationship with those you care. And the relationships would be experiencing the true meaning of care and love from moment to moment.
To be honest, we are not actually caring for them, if we only do those as mentioned above but forgetting those little things in their lives. Like do you offer to help with the housechores? Or buying the groceries? Do you give them a warming smile to light up their day? Do you really listen to them when they are telling you about the day they went through? Do you hold their hands while taking a stroll? Or do you remember how much sugar to put in their coffee?
To truly care for someone is to pay attention to everything, both big and small things of his/her life, not ONLY to the thing like buying a big present; is to be with him/her whenever he/she needs you to be there, not ONLY on special occasions or events.
There is a saying sounds, "it's the little things that count".
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that we can just treat the special occasions as normal days, creating happy moments during special occasions like birthday, anniversary and festive seasons are the must-dos. The point here is not to forget the little things in everyday life.
If you're someone who cares for the little things of someone you care, you're a caring person. If you do neglect the little things of someone you care, that doesn't mean you're not a caring person, but rather having a different way of expressing your care. Anyway, why not start paying attention to the little things of someone you care start from today? It would strengthen your relationship with those you care. And the relationships would be experiencing the true meaning of care and love from moment to moment.
2 comments:
sharing is caring... GREATS sharing!!
lolzz.. XD post more yea lazy blogger
Thank you.
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